Kidney Transplant: What You Need to Know About Eligibility, Surgery, and Lifelong Care

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Nov, 14 2025

What Is a Kidney Transplant and Why It Matters

A kidney transplant isn’t just another surgery-it’s a life-changing reset for people with end-stage renal disease (ESRD). When your kidneys drop below 15% of normal function, they can’t filter waste or balance fluids anymore. Dialysis keeps you alive, but it’s exhausting, time-consuming, and doesn’t restore quality of life like a healthy transplanted kidney can. In fact, people who get a transplant live longer: about 85% are still alive five years later, compared to just 50% on dialysis. That’s not a small difference-it’s the difference between being tethered to a machine and being able to travel, work, or play with your grandkids.

Who Qualifies for a Kidney Transplant?

Not everyone with kidney failure gets on the transplant list. Centers have clear rules, and they’re not just about kidney numbers. Your glomerular filtration rate (GFR) needs to be 20 mL/min or lower to qualify. Some centers, like Mayo Clinic, may consider you if your GFR is up to 25 mL/min-but only if your kidney function is dropping fast (at least 10 mL/min per year) or you already have a living donor lined up.

Age doesn’t automatically disqualify you. UCLA doesn’t set a hard cutoff, but they do look closely at older patients. If you’re 75 or older, Vanderbilt says it’s a red flag, but not a dealbreaker. What matters more is how well your heart, lungs, and body hold up under stress. A 78-year-old with strong bones, clear lungs, and no heart issues might be a better candidate than a 60-year-old with uncontrolled diabetes and blocked arteries.

Body Weight and Surgical Risk

Obesity is one of the biggest barriers to transplant eligibility. A BMI over 35 is a warning sign. Over 45? Most centers will say no-until you lose weight. Why? Extra fat makes surgery harder, increases infection risk, and doubles the chance of the new kidney failing within five years. A 2022 study in the American Journal of Transplantation found obese patients had 35% more surgical complications and 20% higher graft failure rates. You don’t need to be skinny, but you do need to be healthy enough to survive the operation and take care of the new organ.

Heart and Lung Health: Non-Negotiables

Your heart and lungs have to be strong enough to handle major surgery and lifelong immunosuppressants. If you have severe pulmonary hypertension-right ventricle pressure above 50 mm Hg-you’re likely ineligible. Vanderbilt sets an even stricter line: if your pulmonary artery pressure hits 70 mm Hg or higher, they won’t move forward. Same goes for oxygen dependence. If you need to carry an oxygen tank just to walk to the bathroom, that’s a red flag. Your heart needs an ejection fraction of at least 35-40%. That means your heart pumps out enough blood with each beat to keep your new kidney alive.

Surgeon placing a transplanted kidney into a patient's abdomen during surgery.

The Evaluation Process: More Than Just Blood Tests

Getting on the list isn’t a quick appointment. It’s a months-long process. You’ll go through blood tests, cancer screenings, chest X-rays, EKGs, and tests for viruses like HIV, hepatitis, and CMV. But the real depth comes in the psychological and social checks.

Nebraska Medicine requires you to have a care partner-someone who will remind you to take pills, drive you to appointments, and call the clinic if something feels off. Penn Medicine checks your mental health history. If you’ve had untreated depression, bipolar disorder, or active substance abuse, they’ll pause your application. You don’t need to be perfect, but you need to be reliable. Taking immunosuppressants every single day, for life, isn’t optional. Miss a dose, and your body could reject the kidney within days.

What Disqualifies You Forever?

Some things are absolute dealbreakers:

  • Active cancer-unless you’ve been cancer-free for a set time (usually 2-5 years, depending on type)
  • Untreated HIV with low CD4 count or detectable viral load
  • Active hepatitis B with detectable virus in the blood
  • Uncontrolled substance abuse-alcohol, opioids, meth, or cocaine
  • Severe untreated mental illness that prevents medication adherence

These aren’t just rules-they’re survival guidelines. A transplant doesn’t fix addiction or cancer. It just gives your body a new organ to fight against. If you’re not ready to change, the transplant won’t work.

The Surgery: What Happens in the Operating Room

The surgery takes 3 to 4 hours. You’re under general anesthesia. The surgeon places the new kidney in your lower belly, connects its artery and vein to your own blood vessels, and attaches the ureter to your bladder. Your original kidneys? Usually left in place. They’re not removed unless they’re infected, causing high blood pressure, or too large to leave safely.

The new kidney often starts making urine right away-sometimes even before you wake up. But in about 20% of cases, especially with kidneys from deceased donors, it takes a few days to kick in. That’s called delayed graft function. You might need dialysis for a week or two while the kidney recovers. It’s not failure-it’s just a slow start.

A person jogging in a park with a pill organizer, symbolizing life after kidney transplant.

Life After Transplant: The Real Work Begins

Getting the kidney is only half the battle. The other half is keeping it alive. You’ll take immunosuppressants every day, for the rest of your life. That means a mix of drugs-usually tacrolimus or cyclosporine, mycophenolate, and a steroid like prednisone. These drugs stop your immune system from attacking the new kidney. But they also weaken your defenses against infections and raise your risk for certain cancers, diabetes, and high blood pressure.

Follow-up visits are strict: weekly for the first month, then monthly for the next few months, then every three months. After that, you’ll still need annual checkups forever. Blood tests, urine tests, ultrasounds-they’re all part of the routine. You’ll learn to recognize the signs of rejection: fever, swelling, weight gain, decreased urine output, or pain near the transplant site. Catch it early, and it’s often reversible.

Living Donor vs. Deceased Donor: The Numbers Don’t Lie

If you have a living donor-say, a sibling, spouse, or even a friend-you’re in the best possible position. Living donor kidneys last longer. One-year survival? 97% for living donor transplants versus 93% for deceased donor. Five-year survival? 85% versus 78%. Why? Because the kidney is healthy, fresh, and doesn’t spend hours or days in cold storage. It goes from one body to another in under an hour.

Deceased donor kidneys come from people who’ve died. They’re still life-saving, but they’re more likely to have been damaged by illness, trauma, or long wait times. The Kidney Donor Profile Index (KDPI) helps match kidneys with the longest expected life to recipients who need them most. Even high-KDPI kidneys-those from older donors or donors with health issues-still give you a better shot at life than staying on dialysis.

What’s Next? The Future of Transplants

Scientists are working on ways to reduce or eliminate lifelong immunosuppression. Clinical trials at Stanford and the University of Minnesota are testing tolerance-inducing therapies-training the immune system to accept the new kidney without drugs. If it works, it could change everything. For now, though, the best tool you have is consistency: take your pills, show up for appointments, eat well, and stay active. Your new kidney doesn’t need perfection. It just needs you to show up.

Can you get a kidney transplant if you’re over 70?

Yes, but it depends on your overall health, not your age. Centers like UCLA don’t have an age limit-they assess fitness, heart health, lung function, and mental readiness. If you’re 75 and active, with no major heart or lung disease, you could be a candidate. But if you’re frail, have severe diabetes, or need oxygen to breathe, your chances drop significantly. The goal isn’t to extend life-it’s to extend quality life.

How long do kidney transplants last?

On average, a kidney from a living donor lasts 15-20 years. A kidney from a deceased donor lasts 10-15 years. Some last longer-over 30 years in rare cases. But rejection, infections, or side effects from medications can shorten that. That’s why lifelong monitoring is critical. Many people get a second transplant if the first one fails.

Can you drink alcohol after a kidney transplant?

Moderation is key. Most transplant centers allow 1-2 drinks per week, but heavy drinking is dangerous. Alcohol can damage the new kidney, interfere with immunosuppressants, and raise blood pressure. Some centers require a 6-month alcohol-free period before transplant. After that, occasional drinking is usually fine-but never binge drink.

What happens if your body rejects the new kidney?

Rejection happens in about 10-20% of cases within the first year. Most are mild and caught early through blood tests. Doctors treat it by increasing immunosuppressant doses or adding new drugs. If rejection is severe or repeated, the kidney may fail. In that case, you’d return to dialysis and be re-listed for another transplant. Early detection saves kidneys.

Do you need to change your diet after a transplant?

Yes. You’ll need to avoid grapefruit and Seville oranges-they interfere with immunosuppressant drugs. You’ll also need to limit salt, sugar, and saturated fats to protect your heart and blood pressure. Protein intake should be moderate-too much can strain the kidney. A dietitian will help you build a plan that supports your new organ and balances medication side effects.

Can you get pregnant after a kidney transplant?

Yes, many women do. But it’s safest to wait at least one year after transplant, when the kidney is stable and medication doses are low. You’ll need close monitoring by both a nephrologist and an OB-GYN. Some immunosuppressants are safe during pregnancy; others aren’t. Planning ahead is critical-don’t assume you can get pregnant right away.

What to Do Next

If you’re considering a transplant, start by talking to your nephrologist. Ask for a referral to a transplant center. Don’t wait until you’re on dialysis-early evaluation gives you more options. If you have a potential living donor, encourage them to get screened. Every day you wait on the list is a day you’re not living your life. The system isn’t perfect, but a transplant still offers the best chance to get back to normal.

14 Comments
  • Jennifer Walton
    Jennifer Walton November 14, 2025 AT 12:39
    Transplants aren't magic. They're a contract. You show up, you take the pills, you don't ruin it with bad choices. Simple. Most people can't handle that kind of responsibility.

    It's not about age or BMI. It's about will.
  • Kihya Beitz
    Kihya Beitz November 16, 2025 AT 01:58
    So let me get this straight - you're telling me I have to be *healthy* to get a new kidney? What a joke. Next they'll tell me I need to stop eating tacos and watch my Netflix intake. đŸ€Ą
  • Ogonna Igbo
    Ogonna Igbo November 17, 2025 AT 04:08
    In Nigeria we don't have these luxury evaluations. If your kidney fails you die or you beg. No waiting lists. No psychological checks. Just God and your family. Why do you need a care partner when you have no one to care? This system is built for the rich. The rest of us just survive.
  • BABA SABKA
    BABA SABKA November 17, 2025 AT 17:28
    The KDPI metric is a statistical illusion. It reduces human organs to a score like a car model. A kidney from a 70-year-old donor with hypertension is still a miracle. The real issue is not the donor profile - it's the bureaucratic inertia that keeps people on dialysis for years while they wait for a 'perfect' match. We need to prioritize need over perfection. The system is broken because it's trying to optimize for outcomes instead of saving lives now.
  • Chris Bryan
    Chris Bryan November 18, 2025 AT 05:19
    They say 'no active cancer' but what about the 5000+ people who got transplants and then developed cancer from the immunosuppressants? The FDA knows this. The hospitals know this. They just don't tell you until it's too late. This isn't medicine - it's a slow-release poison with a side of false hope.
  • Jonathan Dobey
    Jonathan Dobey November 18, 2025 AT 08:39
    We are all just temporary vessels for biology’s experiment. The kidney is not yours - it’s borrowed from death, sustained by chemical submission. The real transplant isn’t the organ - it’s the surrender of autonomy to a pharmacological regime that turns you into a walking pharmacy. We don’t celebrate life here. We institutionalize dependency. And we call it progress.

    Still, I’d take the pill. I’d take the pain. I’d take the fear. Because even a chained life is still a life.
  • ASHISH TURAN
    ASHISH TURAN November 19, 2025 AT 17:08
    I have a cousin who got a transplant in 2018. He takes his meds religiously. Goes for checkups. Doesn't drink. Walks every morning. He’s alive. He’s working. He plays with his kids. It’s not glamorous. It’s not easy. But it’s possible. If you’re serious, it’s doable.
  • Ryan Airey
    Ryan Airey November 20, 2025 AT 02:18
    Let’s cut the fluff. If you’re obese, you’re not getting a kidney. Period. No one wants to risk a $500k surgery on someone who won’t change their lifestyle. This isn’t charity - it’s a high-stakes investment. If you can’t manage your weight, you can’t manage your immune system. End of story.
  • Hollis Hollywood
    Hollis Hollywood November 20, 2025 AT 21:30
    I’ve been on dialysis for four years. I’ve watched people get listed, get rejected, get hopeful, get crushed. I’ve seen the quiet ones who just nod and say 'I understand' after the doctor says no. I don’t know if I’ll ever get one. But I still show up. I still take my pills. I still breathe. Maybe that’s the real transplant - not the organ, but the refusal to give up. Even when no one’s watching.
  • Aidan McCord-Amasis
    Aidan McCord-Amasis November 21, 2025 AT 05:29
    Alcohol? 1-2 drinks/week 😎 I’m not gonna lie - I’d probably drink 3 and call it 'moderation'. đŸ»
  • Adam Dille
    Adam Dille November 22, 2025 AT 15:54
    I had a friend who got a kidney from his sister. They cried during the surgery. After, he cooked her favorite meal - lasagna - and ate it with her in the hospital. No meds, no rules, no fear. Just food and family. That’s what this is really about. Not the science. Not the stats. Just someone willing to give you a piece of themselves.

    It’s wild how much love can fit in a single organ.
  • Katie Baker
    Katie Baker November 23, 2025 AT 03:07
    I’m so glad this info is out there. I’ve been scared to ask my doctor about transplant because I thought I was 'too old' or 'too unhealthy'. Reading this made me feel like maybe - just maybe - I could still fight for it. Thank you.
  • John Foster
    John Foster November 24, 2025 AT 08:28
    The entire transplant system is a reflection of our collective denial of mortality. We pretend we can outsource death by swapping organs like batteries. But the body doesn’t work that way. It remembers. It resists. It decays. The immunosuppressants are not a cure - they are a temporary truce with entropy. We are not conquering death. We are delaying it. And in that delay, we build lives that are more fragile than ever - dependent, monitored, chemically altered. We call it medicine. I call it existential theater.
  • Edward Ward
    Edward Ward November 26, 2025 AT 08:23
    I’ve been researching this for months - and I think the most overlooked part is the psychological burden of lifelong medication adherence. It’s not just about remembering pills - it’s about living with the constant, low-grade terror that one missed dose could trigger rejection. That’s not a medical issue. That’s a trauma. And no one talks about it. The system focuses on survival rates, but not on the quiet, daily anxiety of being a walking time bomb with a new organ. We need mental health support built into transplant care - not as an afterthought, but as a core component.
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